You’re not a magnet, but who says you can’t be magnetic? You can, especially when it comes to attracting women.
Attraction is a skill you can learn, particularly where finding dates is concerned. Unfortunately, few men will tell you attracting women is easy. This is because they either don’t know how to do it themselves, or want to keep their secrets secret.
The good news is that attracting women works just like most things in life do. The more you work at it, the better you’ll get. Practice makes perfect, after all; and even flirting and mingling needs tons of practice.
When you see a woman you’re attracted to, don’t decide right there and then to make her your guinea pig. In other words, don’t practice your tactics on her. Instead, take the time to assess your situation and hers. While you do this, establish eye contact; but be careful to follow the three second rule.
Three second rule? There is one?
Yes, there is, and it’s really simple. What it means is that when you find someone you are attracted to, look at her for three seconds, and then find ways to start a conversation. What do you say to her? Anything! Be careful to stick to neutral opinion gathering questions, though. You don’t want to get her riled up over something she’s really passionate about. You just want her to talk to you; so keep your questions light and light-hearted.
Once you get women talking, don’t think you’re all done where attracting women is concerned. The battle is far from won. You see, it’s not so much what the two of you talked about that she will remember. It’s how you said your piece, and how you behaved saying it. Sounds complicated? It is; but it gets easier the more you try it.